Two kinda unrelated blurbs about two Haitians I met this weekend.
Fritz
A new hotel opened in Leogane this weekend. In celebration, the owner held what was billed as a block party, no invitation needed. Word spread around the base quickly. Many were intrigued by the prospect of free beer.
Dann, a volunteer from the Chicago suburbs, and I headed over there after the beach Saturday to check it out. (We weren’t going for the beer, promise.) The party was supposed to start at 5 p.m. When we got there, at 6 p.m., it had yet to start — not exactly a surprise, given that everything in Haiti (with the exception of our workdays!) seems to run on “Haitian time.”
When we asked for clarification from the staff on the weekend’s events, we were introduced to the Hotel Arawak’s owner, Fritz.
Fritz was a real sweetie. He explained to us that he had pushed back the party until the evening out of respect for a funeral which was being held just a block away. (On our way to the hotel, we had walked by the church – a wooden-framed “building” next to an IDP camp that has a hodgepodge of tarps, including one from Chicago’s Shedd Aquarium, serving as its roof.) (Can you imagine something similar happening in the United States? I love Haiti’s sense of community.)
Postponing a celebration like his hotel’s grand opening out of respect for the deceased, Fritz explained, was something that he was still learning – even though he is Haitian and is from Leogane: Fritz has spent many years living in New York City and speaks English very well. (How lucky for us!) This led into a long conversation and private tour of the still-sparkling facility …. Which has flushing toilets! When Fritz inquired where we were from (coincidentally, the same area), he explained that he had been to Chicago before – and attended high school in Evanston! What a small world.
I was struck by Fritz’ kindness, even though I recognize it was a smart business decision on his part to talk up foreigners who can help spread the word. (A night’s stay won’t be affordable for most Haitians: Rooms start at $65 US.) Here was a man preparing for the official opening of his new business, taking the time to greet us, show us around, and invite us back for festivities, food and drink. (We did return Sunday afternoon, for complimentary cokes and sandwiches. Curiously, most of the attendees at that day’s ceremony were Latino. Fritz repeated his Kreyol welcome speech in French, English and Spanish.) I love Haitians’ sense of community.
Rommel
After saying goodbye to Fritz, Dann and I headed across the street to grab glass bottle drinks from a local vendor. Many Haitian vendors sell Cokes, Sprites and some other beverages in glass bottles, which are then collected by the distributor, cleaned and rebottled. For a country that doesn’t have a waste management system, so no way to properly dispose or recycle plastic bottles, it’s great. We try to use glass bottles when we can, but the catch is that you have to drink the 1/2 liter drink at the vendor. (Sellers lose money if they don’t return the bottle to their distributors, so most don’t let their bottles go for walks with customers.)
We grabbed limonade – a slightly fizzy, sugary lemonade-type drink – for the low, low price of 15 goude (about 40 cents) and sat down on a bench. We were quickly approached by a very large, dreadlocked Haitian man who looked to be in his late 40s: Rommel.
He had pegged us for journalists: We were the only two white people on the block, and I was carrying a SLR camera. After we explained we were volunteers, the conversation got rolling: Rommel spoke English (trust me, this is uncommon among Haitians) and was very interested to learn about our work and backgrounds. Many members of Rommel’s family live in the United States, including a son in the Army who currently is serving in Afghanistan. Rommel himself frequently travels to NYC, although he lives in Leogane on the street where we met him, where he owns a dry cleaning business.
He pointed out the business and then pointed out his house: It’s the building behind that home there, he said pointing to a structure we could barely make out. It was hidden behind a collapsed building. That collapsed building, Rommel explained, was his family’s, too, but it was lost in the earthquake.
Three of his family members died in the earthquake, Rommel said without emotion. He kept on talking, over the sympathetic yet awkward, muttered apologies of myself and Dann. There was no pause. That was just the way things were.
Just before Rommel had introduced himself, I had remarked to Dann about a beautiful, half-collapsed building on the corner. I asked
Rommel if he knew what that building was. Sure, he explained – that’s my grandmother’s. It got hit in the earthquake, too. She survived and now lives with Rommel next door.
On our walk back to base camp, Dann told me a Haitian saying he once heard: “If Haitians cried every time something bad happened to them, the whole country would be flooded.”